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Update: What's Been Happening at Gum on My Shoe?

As many of you will recall our blog had a total makeover back in January. Fran and I thought it would be nice to update you on what’s been happening behind the scenes since then and highlight a few successes. New Look Same Passion As we said at the time the revamp was to improve the experience for our visitors and didn’t in any way represent a change in our mission, values, and goals. We remain focused on sharing honest conversations about mental health and the power of supportive friendships. Check our announcement post A Fresh Look for Gum on My Shoe for a reminder of what changed and what didn’t. The revamp seems to have gone down well. Here’s what our dear friend Andi shared with us. I found the new website very easy to navigate AND I can’t put my finger on it, but it’s warmer, like I’m in a room with you & Fran & your guests as opposed to viewing a virtual site. I like it a lot! Thanks, Andi! Let us know what works for you, anything that doesn’t, and what you...

You Can't Have Everything: Decluttering for Mental Health and Wellbeing

You can’t have everything. Where would you put it? — Steven Wright This blog post was inspired by a letter from my friend Maya who lives in Cornwall. She described the aftermath of Storm Goretti which had brought extensive damage to the region. “Weather wise,” she said, “we’re still being rattled around by the wind: things blown all over the place; bins and recycling bags going for walkabout (or blowabouts), scattering litter that people seem not to care two hoots about where it ends up.” She then introduced a term I’d never encountered before. “Ever heard of ‘plogging’ by the way? I hadn’t! It’s the act of picking up litter while jogging!” It turns out plogging originated in Sweden around 2016. The word is a portmanteau of “jogging” and the Swedish phrase plocka upp (pick up). It sounds fun but I can’t imagine myself jogging. That’s not to say that litter collecting is the preserve of the fit and healthy. As if to prove the point Maya included a photo of Orinoco from the t...

Our Top Posts of the Month (March 2026)

Check out our top blog posts for the past month. Posts are listed by the number of page views they attracted during the month, most popular first.

When You Give Me That Look: Thoughts on Mental Health and Humour for April Fools' Day

It’s a joke. When you give me that look, it’s a joke . — Krusty the Clown, The Simpsons This post goes up on April 1. April Fools’ Day . A day known around the world for practical jokes, hoaxes, and pranks. One of the most famous is the Spaghetti Tree Hoax of 1957 in which the BBC showed a film in their Panorama current affairs series that purported to show Swiss farmers harvesting freshly-grown spaghetti. It’s my third least favourite day of the year, after Halloween and November 5 (Bonfire Night here in the UK). I hate the chaotic uncertainty, the overturning of trust, and the sly nastiness of many of the pranks. I’m nevertheless expected to find them amusing or risk reproval for lacking a sense of fun. In the fourteenth episode of the fourteenth season of The Simpsons (“Mr Spritz Goes to Washington”) Krusty the Clown stuns the Simpsons family by claiming “For a thousand [dollars] I can have someone whacked.” Responding to their astonished silence he declares , “It’s a j...